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What is a man?

December 14, 2008 on 12:41 am | In Uncategorized |

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A man is confident, he get’s his security from his inner strength, knowledge, life experience, and obstacles he has over come in his life.

A man does not run from his fears but instead faces them because he knows that there is hidden strength to be gained in overcoming them.

He lives life on his own terms and is willing to take the risks that it brings.

He is both gentle and strong at the same time and he knows how to make a woman feel like a woman.

He’s strength and identity does not come from, his job, title, car, house, clothes, or the woman he is with because he knows all of that can be gone in an instant and the only thing real in this life is what is inside him.

Nor does he need those things to make up for what he lacks on the inside or to over compensate for his shortcomings.

He naturally attracts them to him and has them only becuase he desires them.

He is firm and strong when he knows he is right and is big enough to let go of his ego and say “I’m sorry” when he knows he is wrong. He has goals and the means, drive and will to attain them.

He does not need to play games or waste his time with those that do. He tells you where you stand when you ask. He knows he can handle the situation so he feels no need to lie becuase he knows that lies come from a place of weakness and he wants no part of that.

That’s what a man is to me and the man I strive to be. It’s not always an easy path but very often a rewarding one.

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